Picking Kate up from a week away at writers' camp. I missed her like crazy!
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| A welcome home dinner of chicken satay, coconut rice, and salad with mango and avocado |
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While Kate is awesome at getting the most out of any experience, this camp wasn't as great as the others she's attended. The kids attending weren't as into writing as kids she's met at other camps. She loves the classes and the teachers and learning and writing and having fun, but this camp isn't on the "must do again" list.
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She started working the very next day. A 9-hour shift no less!
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She was definitely tired after a week of camp and a long day of work.
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Our trip to DC on Sunday. We got to do something I've been wanting to do for a long time - take NO H8 pictures! This organization began as a loving, peaceful response to the hatred and marginalization inherent in California's Prop 8. It represents voices silenced by legislation like Prop 8 and other similar legislation around the world. Their mission is to promote love and respect for all human beings and that is something I can get behind.
It has significant symbolism for me personally, because Prop 8 was definitely a straw for me in my own personal life journey. It was a time when I knew I needed to leave being a part of an organization that didn't fight for the rights of the LGBT community, because even my membership felt like a complicit endorsement of hatred and discrimination toward an already-oppressed group of people. Leaving that organization has cost us friendships, strained family relationships, and invited judgment, but I wouldn't do anything differently, because despite all of that, a profound peace and authenticity has come into my life from living a life of principle, one that aligns with who I am and what I feel.
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| Kissing at Ford's Theater |
It was amazing to be there with so many people also willing to stand up and not hide their support. It felt right and good to be a part of something that builds and connects rather than tears down and destroys. I'm very glad we could do this.
They were incredibly efficient, too, so the lines moved quickly and the photographer was amazing. We're so excited to get our pictures! Since it was so efficient and thanks to our awesome friends for playing with Scout for the day, we were able to do a couple more things in the city, including going next door to Ford's Theater where President Abraham Lincoln was shot.
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| Voting on the leadership quality they feel is the most important |
Max spotted a sign for lobster rolls at a restaurant we walked past, so Kate and I picked up two of those. We got to enjoy a nice chat with the guy from Boston who ran the place. We took our lobster rolls and ate those as well as some good BBQ goodness at the street festival. It was so great to be in a place with more diversity than our tiny town. We talked with people who live in DC and danced to an all-female band right alongside people on the streets. It was great. A gay man came up to us and asked about our NO H8 pictures and he thanked us twice very sincerely and was even a bit emotional about being supported like that. That was a sweet interaction.
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| If you look closely, you can see the Capitol in the background |
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Washing off the temporary NO H8 tattoos. I kept mine as long as I could right up until bedtime, and basked in the glow of a great day.
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Working on and finishing a home project that I've been excited about for some time. A magnetized spice wall rack! Until now, all the spices have been crowded in a congested cupboard and cooking (something we do a lot) has involved various spice containers falling all over us while we access them. I saw something like this in the background of a picture someone posted on their blog, so I did a little research and we figured out how to make it happen! Also? I love working on projects as a family. This one even involved lots of rapping and singing ("Hamilton," of course)! And I'm so happy with the finished project! Foleys. We get the job done.
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It's so pretty! And handy! And generally awesome. :) It made us smile the next morning to wake up and see it in the kitchen. I love that feeling you get when you wake up the next day after completing an awesome project and you see it and are renewedly happy about it. Bring on more cooking! This is especially handy since we're making Indian food this week and it requires a lot of spices (usually just about any spice starting with "C"). And yes, we've alphabetized this in addition to labeling them.
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It's been an emotionally challenging week for me. I feel like I'm in a worse-before-it-gets-better kind of place. Sometimes I feel like I'm walking around in a haze. I'm incredibly exhausted. I feel like I've been running a race at high speed for years now. I'm not depressed and I'm not anxious (all the time anyway). It's something else entirely.
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Taking my daughter around to follow up on places where she's applied for jobs as well as some fun volunteering positions.
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Dealing with the rough side of that process - hiring freezes, rude interviewers, etc. She's such a great, hard-working, responsible kid. One manager was so rude, she didn't even allow a chance to find out how awesome Kate is. Her loss.
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Looks like rude lady's loss is another's gain. Not 3 hours after the rude, dismissive interview, Kate got a call from another manager who is so eager to talk to Kate, that he had someone who doesn't usually handle the interviews call her right away to get her in this weekend! Woot!
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Several repairs on the old van, including new brakes, new tires, and a new muffler. Those phone calls about cost from the mechanic always stress me out.
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The new van is such a dream to drive. It's really wonderful. As usual, we didn't get a lot of extra bells and whistles, but even what's standard now is fancy for us. Plus it drives so smoothly!
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On to July! This month brings another writers' camp (the really great one - great classes, kids who like to write, Kate's friends, etc.) and a several-week visit from out-of-state friends. Two of Kate's friends who came back in April will be spending a lot of time with her this month! Max has opted to not committing to too much stuff so he can play, ride bikes, swim, etc. A true kids' summertime! We've not scheduled a lot on purpose, but even the few things we have include fun stuff like games, anime, summer movies, smores around the fire pit, friends coming over, Harry Potter stuff, etc. And Hamilton. That's a given. Lots and lots of Hamilton playing in our house. All the time. So much Hamilton.
4 comments:
High: A really fun recap of a lot of great things happening in our life lately.
Low: Only now realizing that I hadn't even read the post or commented (and it's been over a week!)
That spice rack looks awesome!
Bummer that Kate's camp wasn't as good as she hoped.
What's her new job?
I have a friend and his wife that left the church because his wife lost a gay, young brother to suicide. (They've also had other issues with church history/doctrine.)
I miss them at church and I've tried really hard to keep the lines of communication open with some success. Anyway, what has been most hard on them is the tension with their families. I have a hard time understanding that because my family has no interest in being Mormons but we still love and respect each other and get along great despite our religious differences.
As for my personal thoughts--I think it's admirable and you and your family are willing to reach out and have the courage to show your support for our gay friends and family.
*and = that
Mark, time really flies. It's crazy!
Jimmy, thank you! As you now know from other posts, she's working at a movie theater! How fun is that?!?
Oh that's just awful. I'm honestly outraged at what all the hatred and bigotry is doing to young, precious lives. :( It seems to be more important to some people to be "the one truth" than to step back and admit it's doing harm.
I think it's different if people are already not Mormon and have no interest in it. But for those who ARE Mormon, having family members leave seems to be so hard that they don't know what to do and it seems like it creates even more distance. :/ It's a shame really. I listen to what they have to say, but they don't want to necessarily hear what we have to say (unless it's that we've changed our minds and now agree with them, you know?).
Thank you for the encouraging words. It means a lot.
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