"I like Angus Beef. I like Buffalo Burgers, too,
but I feel bad for the buffalo when I eat them.
I love spontaneous love and hugs from my kids.
I got a big hug from Thing 2 yesterday, just because,
with an "I can't wait to cuddle with you tonight!"
We made hot cocoa and watched X-Factor together
while cuddling on the couch.
Glorious!
-- I wrote this on 12/1/2012
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Thing 1 played violin with the Hershey Symphony for their
annual holiday concert.
What an honor. She did a great job!
So proud of her.
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Anyone else think John Travolta looks embalmed?
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At our Christmas Eve dinner, my mom and Jim were
at the table in our dining room with the kids
talking generally about dress and appearance with Thing 1.
I was in the kitchen bringing food
in when I heard them bust up laughing.
Apparently, they said (speaking of how I dress),
"Your mother is conservative,"
to which Thing 1 replied,
"No she's not. She's a Democrat."
Bwahahahahahaha! LOVE her!
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Hashtags are funny sometimes.
But their overuse is REALLY annoying.
#knockitoff
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My mom came for the holidays and treated the kids to
a shopping spree at the locale of their choice.
Thing 2 chose a gaming/card shop for Yu-Gi-Oh! Cards.
Thing 1 turned down my mom's suggestion of Claire's
in favor of a book store.
Do I have the coolest kids ever or what?
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Thing 2's birthday is the same day as his favorite author, J.R.R. Tolkien.
How cool is that?
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We pay for our own high-deductible health insurance.
I had a regular yearly exam. That was covered.
The lab fees? Over $500.
Blergh.
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I think I have worn make up maybe twice in the past year.
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This season's Modern Family has been a little bleh at times for me,
but this season's Big Bang Theory is beyond awesome.
It keeps getting better and better.
That takes serious writing talent.
Saw an article that said it is reaching milestones
only reached by M*A*S*H and I Love Lucy.
Wow.
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I sit through movie credits.
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I don't like dim lighting when I'm eating.
I'm a romantic, but I like to see my food.
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I heart Tina Fey.
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I don't know that I'll ever understand the extreme loyalty
people feel toward sports teams.
Not saying it's wrong.
Just saying I don't get it.
I think it's weird when people feel an allegiance to a team
just because they live near them.
Geography determines your commitment?
Odd.
(If they like them anyway, I get it.
If it's just because they live near them?
Not so much.)
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I was talking with a group of families the other day.
One woman said, "Everybody's working more and making less."
Another woman said, "Or they're making the same
but getting benefits cut, which ends up costing more."
Another person said, "Or getting the same pay
but costs are rising beyond what they can afford."
I have seen examples of all those things.
Jake: I'm so perfect, I don't need a New Year's Resolution.
My kids are both working on New Year's resolutions of their own accord.
Thing 2 is trying to eat more vegetarian meals (which he loves).
Thing 1 is teaching herself to play guitar.
My mom and Jim came for Christmas.
It was so nice to have them here for that.
Then my mom stayed for a couple of weeks.
of my Dad's death with a memorial ceremony we do every year.
Mark surprised my mom and me with flowers, too.
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I think it's lame that younger generations get accused of lack of appreciation
just because of when they're born (as if that's their fault).
I'm sure it happens to every generation -
younger people get perceived as selfish and uncaring
because they're born to an "easier" time.
I can appreciate past generations and yet enjoy the present
as well as have different challenges.
Not unlike years ago.
Those who lived through WWII didn't have the same challenges
as those who lived through WWI.
Those who lived in the 50s didn't have the same challenges
as those who crossed the plains.
It's interesting to note the differences,
but why the one-ups-man-ship?
Every generation has it both easier and harder than the one before.
It's just different.
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I am a neat and clean person,
but our house gets messy sometimes,
and I am totally okay with that.
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"That's just how I am" - acceptance or cop out?
Discuss.
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I generally prefer TV series over movies.
It goes along with how I prefer working with clients
on a long-term outpatient basis compared to shorter, inpatient stints.
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Bullying is wrong, no question.
But I really think the word "bullying" gets tossed around FAR too much.
Where's the campaign to help people learn to not be victims
of every perceived slight?
Not kidding.
It's called therapy.
Plus it's insulting to those who are truly bullied
to use that term for every time someone upsets you.
It is
not the same thing.
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Like with the tragedy that is suicide.
It's horrible, horrible, horrible, and so incredibly sad and tragic.
But to fault others for the choice one makes with one's own life
isn't fair either.
It's true their actions may have contributed to the person's decision.
But the choice is that person's
and they ultimately own it.
It's normal to question, but it's not right
for someone to be plagued by guilt and carry that responsibility.
Nor is it fair to point fingers.
I think that perpetuates the problem.
I'm thinking specifically of the situation with the nurse
in the UK who was pranked by the Australian DJs
(extremely poor judgment but not meant as malicious)
and the Rutgers bullying case
(which was nothing short of utterly despicable).
While I believe strongly in the inter-connectedness of all people,
and I think we can all be powerful influences on one another with words and actions,
and I very much believe we should choose to do good with our words and actions,
we all own our
own actions.
It's not okay to say that someone's choice to take their own life
is someone else's fault.
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It occurred to me in the shower one day that you can’t
exactly finish this sentence well.
Here's the challenge -
Fill in the blank with a word that fits (because I can't think of one that does):
I'm not a __________; I just don't want them to have what I have.
(I've heard that sentence filled in with words like bigot, racist, hater . . .
none of those go together with the next part of the sentence
or without the person making the statement looking like a tool).
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I thought about writing a book about a world
in which you could always
see someone's thoughts.
But then Facebook was invented.
There went that idea.
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Overheard: "I can't read my book; the battery died."
That just makes me sad.
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Two very cool news stories I read recently are
this one and
this one.
There are good people in the world.
We don't hear enough about them.
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Have I ever mentioned that I dislike HOAs?
Not.
A. Fan.
The way I look at it, you're
paying someone
to tell you what to do with
your
home.
How have people bought into this (no pun intended)?
I understand
it's an attempt to keep homes looking nice
so that values stay high,
but
it presupposes that everyone's an idiot
who wouldn't keep things nice
unless told, scolded, and fined.
Seriously, I dislike the concept so
much
that the main character in my first book
had a lot to say about them ( she doesn't like them either). :P
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Wow, I started writing this post over a month ago.
I managed to write an entire post
without one mention of the NRA.
Maybe I'm more disciplined than I thought.
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And even though I'm not a big sports fan,
I think a Patriots-Niners Superbowl would be fun.
And yes, I'm more excited about the food.
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Saw Ed Asner on the Macy's Day Parade coverage.
He reminds me of my Uncle Joe.
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Before these recent holidays,
our kids went a whole year
where they spent time in the presence of a grandparent
for 3 total days (not in a row).
Those who are near extended family help,
you're lucky.
Though I admit that we have some friends who live near family
and they say
we're lucky.
Maybe the heart of the matter is what kind of family you have!
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Dianne Sawyer and JK Rowling.
I don't usually care for blondes, but I think they're both stunning.
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Came across
this version of a great song the other day
and I so so so wish it were available for download.
Natalie Merchant, Peter Gabriel, and Michael Stipe together?
Who thought that up?
It's BRILLIANT.
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I just watched a grown man on TV pitch a major hissy fit
when a football call didn't go his team's way.
What is manly about that?
Someone please explain that to me.
Because if a 6 or 10 or 16 year old acted like that,
everyone would tell that child to grow up.
Seeing a grown man do it?
Way more idiotic.
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